Best Of…
Spring cleaning isn’t a novel concept. Wardrobe edits. Donating things that no longer “bring you joy.” Making sure your clean-out is extreme enough to have a psychological impact. We know what to do and are getting better at it, but what about the things we hold on to?
Are you using the things you are “saving?” Items you are not ready to get rid of, but you are reluctant to part with for a sentimental reason (a wedding gift)? Or that seem too fancy for every day use? Use them!
Experiencing what we have around for the future may be more challenging to utilize than letting go of things associated with the past. We may have a moment that inspires us to finally get rid of something or we find a use elsewhere which feels easier to give away certain possessions (a dress for your niece, books for friends, dish-ware for a rental house). Maybe we realize if the house were on fire and we wouldn’t grab it or it’s something not worth bringing on a trip, it’s time to toss it.
Many struggle with taking out the fancier things saved for a special occasion, either fearing the situation is not warranted or worse, if you do use what you are “saving,” will actual events lose their exclusivity?
There are many things in life to celebrate-designated occasions by the calendar, holidays, family rituals. There are rituals you create and plans that you can cultivate, whenever you want, however you want. Why not make the most of your best-of items, and if you find that you cannot, maybe they join the exodus of items that no longer “spark joy.” The time is now, and nothing is permanent. Cheers!